Is there anything we love more as moms than being totally seen as moms? Our lives are hectic, they’re crazy, they’re full of way more love than sleep, and honestly, we’re just surviving one day at a time.

Some days, scrolling through memes that validate your life and choices is the only way to roll, and if today is one of those days for you, we think you’ll love these 15 memes about motherhood.

15. You made them yourself.

There’s no denying them now.

14. Why are they like this?

It’s like they just exist to drive us completely insane.

13. Anyone can be your friend.

You hardly remember what your real friends look like anyway.

12. You’ve gotta keep them a little bit scared.

It’s the only way to keep the ship afloat.

11. It literally never ends.

Until you actually want to jab q-tips in your ears.

10. It’s so hard not to laugh.

I know that makes me a terrible person but it is what it is.

9. I wonder when this goes away.

Probably not for years, like the swaying while you stand.

8. They don’t even notice.

My kids look shocked every single time.

7. We just really need him to go to school.

You don’t understand.

6. All over the house.

All day, every day, until you give up on putting pants on them at all.

5. You know which one you’re going to choose.

Sleep be damned.

4. Been there, done that.

I don’t know, I think the pictures are worth it.

3. Why is this so hard?

Seriously, can someone explain it to me?

2. They go completely boneless.

It’s so charming, right?

1. Balance is key.

You have to teach your kids that lesson somehow, right?

I see you out there, mama. We’re doing this together, so don’t give up.

Tell us in the comments which of these memes resonated the most with you!