Marriage is reward as heck, but it’s also equally trying, depending on the day (or sometimes the hour). Being able to give each other crap, and laugh together at the end of the day, is what makes it all come out in the wash, if you ask me.

And if you need some memes to make you remember that murder is wrong, here are 10 that just might do the trick.

10. That expression is just spot on.

But also yes, you’re always hot.

9. It’s important to be on the same page.

And also remember you don’t need any more kids.

8. It might not be fair, but it will keep everyone happy.

Don’t slap yourself too hard, though.

7. It’s always best to make sure she’s eaten.

A good rule of thumb.

6. This is how you know he’s a keeper.

Why do we shave our legs? Seriously, I want an answer!

5. There’s no way to avoid it.

Not even making a deal with the aliens, apparently.

4. My husband usually knows before I do.

It makes me angry but it’s true.

3. You gotta keep them guessing.

Disappointment is a part of life, my friend.

2. Definitely not trying to hear that noise.

YOU cut back on Amazon, sir.

1. This is married romance, people.

Lies and dinner out.

Live to fight another day, my married friends. You can do it!

Which one of these hit home the most? Tell us in the comments!