When you get married, you join a club that hundreds of thousands of people have joined before – but literally no one tells you the full truth about what you’re getting into ahead of time.

Between sharing space with someone, arguing over the right way to load a dishwasher, and possibly bringing kids into the mix, it’s a lot to deal with, and let me tell you, it never ends.

Which is exactly why you probably need these 10 too-true, giggle-worthy memes about what it’s really like behind closed doors.

10. No one cares.

Take a seat, Sir.

9. Everybody loves kittens.

Just tell her thank you already.

8. You are supposed to interject.

Object. Don’t let her do it!

7. What are we, twenty years old still?

The days of the sexy Halloween costume are over.

6. I have never seen a more appropriate comparison.

Why can’t they just move on!?

5. It is not fair OR equal.

And not everyone likes to snuggle.

4. This is A game right here.

Wouldn’t work on me because I wouldn’t go check my texts.

3. Are you going to make the excuse or am I?

Because one of us definitely needs to.

2. Why are they like this?

Seriously get yourselves a Tile and change your life.

1. There’s no way out.

Not an easy one, at any rate.

We’re getting it done another day, y’all. Give each other a pat on the back!

What’s your go-to way to connect with your partner when it’s been a rough week? Give us your tips and tricks in the comments!